Wow, time to burn the DSFL to the ground and start from scratch. Too many great people getting involved their to try and be a bigger part of the league and getting worn to the ground by toxic people that stay in power. Maybe the DSFL needs a whole new format, I don't know. But we can't let it keep bringing the whole league down.
(04-22-2020, 05:58 AM)qWest Wrote:Wow, time to burn the DSFL to the ground and start from scratch. Too many great people getting involved their to try and be a bigger part of the league and getting worn to the ground by toxic people that stay in power. Maybe the DSFL needs a whole new format, I don't know. But we can't let it keep bringing the whole league down. I won't say I was nice. I was toxic as well. But I was only swearing. I never intentionally tried to drive someone away from the league. Let's hope the right decisions are made. Else, they were looking for scapegoats and they found them.
I mentioned this issue a while back. Maybe there needs to be something done to streamline GMing in the DSFL in general? I recognize that the actual GMing isn't the issue, but putting so much work and therefore responsibility puts a target on these new and ambitious member's backs and then results in this.
http://nsfl.jcink.net/index.php?showtopic=18251 (04-22-2020, 06:46 AM)caltroit_red_flames Wrote:I mentioned this issue a while back. Maybe there needs to be something done to streamline GMing in the DSFL in general? I recognize that the actual GMing isn't the issue, but putting so much work and therefore responsibility puts a target on these new and ambitious member's backs and then results in this. The problem is not GMing. The problem is people being toxic to a point something along the lines of "People would be happy if you left" is told. Let's punish that person, and anyone toxic first, and then we can address the other issues. Otherwise, I will just be a scapegoat to cover HO's inability. Being a DSFL GM means you work to keep people in, not drive them away.
What the hell happens in that DSFL GM chat that every once in a while people seem to say stuff like being toxic as hell?
It's funny that a lot of people participate on the "Don't be a dick" and "let's make this a better league" threads and then apparently go into Discord and do the exact opposite. I get the idea that some users create some kind of persona on the forums and general discord and then use the GM chats to be absolute despicable people, bullying, insulting, etc. I seem to remember someone (Bex perhaps?) saying something like "a joke is only a joke if the other person thinks of it like that". And obviously everyone agreed and hugged and kissed and said a bunch of cliché stuff. And now, we keep seeing people thinking about leaving the game, or having bad experiences because of the DSFL. People need to realize this is only a game and the experience should be great for everyone, in the DSFL and the NSFL. And everyone needs to help in achieving that. Toxic people need to get fined and removed from GM jobs if they can't act like adults on a discord chat.
First, sorry that this happened and that you feel this way.
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