08-16-2022, 02:01 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-16-2022, 02:04 PM by SchwarzNarr. Edited 1 time in total.)
(08-16-2022, 01:54 PM)soevil Wrote: And just to flatly say it, I understand that my attitude may have (or has) impacted other users in the league. Perhaps I am just more direct, but if anyone has had a problem with me being "rude", reach out to me and discuss it. Multiple users have mentioned new users coming in and being afraid to go to a certain team for fear of retaliatory harrassment on my account? If I genuinely thought this was that extreme, I would have tightened up when it was made actually apparent. Of the two users @SchwarzNarr and @Gadget (wouldn't let me tag him), I pretty quickly reached out to them to hash it out.
My dude saying "Well, in my own defense, you did say “thanks for that” - so I felt a “you are welcome” was an appropriate response." and going "this is why you shouldn't be offended" isn't an apology. Like, this comment and the "apology" you claim to have done were honestly more telling of you as a person than anything else.
The stuff you said to me and sent to me was less about you being an asshole to me directly, and more about "wow this dude continues to kind of put off an attitude that is definitely not one that the DSFL has seen since the early S20 seasons, and is one that I as former rookie mentor head, along with the rest of DSFL HO, and the DSFL GMs have worked to cultivate." You are actively making players go "so Apparently I can just apologize but call people bitches and its ok," as well as making people not want to be a part of an entire franchise at both the ISFL and DSFL level with your comments.
I'm a big girl, your words didn't hurt me, but they are detrimental to the community at large. The fact that you are more focused on tearing other people down and saying "well they did it so" instead of focusing on building up not only other teams, but every single rookie that you interact with is the issue.