soevil Conduct Detrimental

[infinitempg]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

This should be fun

yeah but to be fair moonlight has been severely traumatized by the yeti

[Air Crou]

Bro I was asked by HO to step down from the Portland job for the same thing. The dude gets away with a probation, and instead of shutting the fuck up, he keeps doubling down, digging his grave deeper than ever. I have no clue who he is, but I am now 100% sure I do not want to share a locker room with him, ever. To a point that if the team he is on is the only team I can sign for, I will retire and recreate or bounce. You can do better, but judging from you doubling down, I doubt it. And take it from a guy that thought going aggressive on people was fun. There are so many people in here that know me well enough to affirm it. I was a HUGE douchebag. But mate, you have somehow managed to surpass me. And that is HARD to do. Take it from me, take a step back, and shut the fuck up. You got away with it very lightly. Thank HO for giving you a slap on the wrist, and withdraw the appeal. Appeals team can increase your punishment. Keep that in mind. @soevil

[g2019]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

[SchwarzNarr]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

[g2019]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

I mean yeah, but how is that relevant in S37? lol

[SchwarzNarr]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

I mean yeah, but how is that relevant in S37? lol

[Murtsi]

And just to flatly say it, I understand that my attitude may have (or has) impacted other users in the league. Perhaps I am just more direct, but if anyone has had a problem with me being "rude", reach out to me and discuss it. Multiple users have mentioned new users coming in and being afraid to go to a certain team for fear of retaliatory harrassment on my account? If I genuinely thought this was that extreme, I would have tightened up when it was made actually apparent. Of the two users @SchwarzNarr and @Gadget (wouldn't let me tag him), I pretty quickly reached out to them to hash it out.

There are multiple things that I don't think you're getting, but I'll name a few.

For one, you are shifting the blame of your actions onto those affected. Which is nearly everyone except for you. Maybe your comments or actions aren't directed at someone specific, sometimes they definitely are, and it is NOT on them or any of us to learn how you communicate or why you act so harshly or in a manner that is either uncomfortable, offensive, or abrasive. It is on YOU to control your actions, not on others to control their reactions to how you make them feel. An apology doesn't make how you act ok or mean that you have to be forgiven. And the fact that not everyone has reached out to you or has made public how they feel does not mean that people aren't viewing your comments and actions negatively.

On another front, your 'apologies' have not been apologies. You have not once said "I'm sorry that I have been acting poorly," instead going with something to the effect of "I apologize if my words offended you." This is not remorse or an active effort to change, as apologies are supposed to suggest. It only is absolving yourself of blame once again, and putting the blame on everyone else for 'not getting it'. Instead, take a serious look in the mirror and see what you can be doing better, and make an effort to change.

Most importantly, you are a DSFL GM. You represent the league from a management position. You are one of the first faces a prospective rookie is going see and interact with that they will look to as a role model. Acting as you have on discord and in public facing spaces is not conducive to a positive community environment, and has and will drive new users away. As a league we expect a DSFL GM to be friendly, welcoming, and a positive representation of this league. As evidenced by the actions you have taken since becoming GM and the many, many responses regarding those actions here, you have been the opposite of that type of person

Teyon with the truth bomb.

As someone who has not been around, seems like a good opportunity to do some self reflection. Usually when you say “I am sorry you got offended” that means there is some maturing to do

[moonlight]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

I mean yeah, but how is that relevant in S37? lol

Just let me be salty okay. 9 Ultimus appearances, 8 wins, 1 unforgettable loss.

[SchwarzNarr]

@soevil is my spirit animal aka multi.

F the yeti

y tho

I mean yeah, but how is that relevant in S37? lol

Just let me be salty okay. 9 Ultimus appearances, 8 wins, 1 unforgettable loss.

You never forget the one that got away. In love and in Sim Football Ultimus Appearances.

[Agent Chaos]

I saw soevil at a grocery store in Los Angeles yesterday. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in his hands without paying. The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter. When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical interference,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.